ARE YOU A LOVER/FIGHTER? 😏
Deep down, we all have a bit of a dichotomy within us - the gentle lover and the fierce fighter. These two sides of our personality may seem at odds with each other, but they actually work in tandem to shape who we are.
🌿 The LOVER is someone who seeks to resolve conflicts and aims for harmony in relationships. They are good listeners, able to forgive, and express their emotions openly. The lovers can appear gentle and kind, but that doesn't mean they are weak. They can be incredibly strong when it comes to protecting those they care about.
⚔️The FIGHTER, on the other hand, is someone who is determined to fight for their beliefs and goals. They stand up for their rights and interests and can be quite competitive. The fighter can be seen as aggressive, but when they channel their energy in a constructive way, their results can be impressive.
We all have both of these aspects within ourselves, and they both can be useful in different situations. Sometimes we need to be a lover, and other times we need to be a fighter. The key is to find the right balance between the two.
✨️Being a lover means to prioritize communication, empathy, and understanding. We listen to others, and work to find common ground. Being a fighter means to stand up for ourselves and our values, even when it's difficult.⛵️
At the begining it's hard to recognize when it's appropriate to be a lover, and when it's time to be a fighter. But the result of this skill is worth it.🧘♀️
So take some time to reflect on your own tendencies and work towards finding a healthy balance between lover and fighter.
Do you feel this balance? Or you prefer to show yourself from one of this sides?